Good morning and I need to start off this post by saying that I am soooooo incredibly blessed to be able to have so many cyber friends and customers that read my blog. As you know, my blog is a connection to who I am and what I am about.
Needless to say, yesterday was a very busy day for me and I dared not to let Earlene know that we were having this party at our house as she would felt so bad that I spent so much time with her and Milo on Saturday. (she does not have a computer so I know that she will not see this)
You all know me by now that I adore animals and I also hope that you know that I try to do the "right and joyful things in life" but I do not think that it is going to work out with Milo and Earlene.
She is scared that she is going to fall and trust me, I am being very patient and want what is best for both her and dear Milo.My heart is so torn as she has the "will to love and wants a companion" but she is scared.
I know that my blog should be (I need to admit to you….I think the word "should" be eliminated in the dictionary) but this is the way I am feeling right now – it has been a long day….it is past 10 p.m. and this is the first that I have been on the computer and between calls from Earlene, the shelter and having the party – I feel like saying….
I apologize that I am not sharing a project of inspiration for you today but as I say "Life is Life" and there is always tomorrow!
Please think of me….I am trying to do a good thing, but at the same time I need to be realistic and do "the right thing"…..I appreciate you all!
I’ll keep you in my thoughts and prayers for the right thing to come to you, Earlene and Milo. Have a blessed day.
Decisions have already been made, hindsight will show you that! Take a deep breath, relax, someone else much bigger that you and I has already taken care of the situation. (You just can’t see it yet) Sinshine thoughts and happy wishes to you Earlene and Milo, it will all work out.
Praying. God will help everyone make the right decision. There is a reason that when you saw Milo, that Earlene came to mind. As I have been told – give God time and he will do wonders. Prayers and hugs being sent to all.
Susan, my dad is 81 and works out everyday. He is very mobile but slow and methodical in his steps. At times he shuffles to ensure he does not fall. I have come to learn and finally beginning to understand that this is one of the greatest fears for those in their 80’s and 90’s. Your heart is so big and that is one of your gifts. Can you pad train Milo so she does not need to take him outside? It might sound odd or gross but I know there are many people that do that so they don’t have to go outside with their pets. Of course this really one works with small dogs. Just possibly Plan C. Thinking of you and know you will do the righ thing. Hugs.
My heartfelt blessings go out to you and your situation. The Lord will ensure that things go as He planned, and that can be hard sometimes because it is not always our plan. I will continue to think of Earline and Milo and pray that things turn out well for all of you. In the meantime, stay strong sweet friend. Remember: Pray hardest when it is hardest to pray. Hugs.
What a heartbreaking post. I can feel your stress with your words. Any possibility of a fence being installed so there is the elimination of a leash? Or is she afraid of tripping on Milo himself? I hope all goes well for everyone. You are doing a wonderful thing helping people and animals.
I hope you are feeling better this morning, Susan. A good night’s sleep, some sunshine, a new day … gives you a new outlook. You are the doer and not the planner. You are doing your best and that is all you can do. Please be kind to yourself, as you are to others.
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You are in my prayers.
Being scared when you are Earlene’s age is not a good place to be. It’s a very uncomfortable feeling, no matter who you are. I really feel for you, Susan. Your heart is So big and So heavy right now. I know in the end that this will all work out for everyone involved. Prayer works wonders, and God is Always ready to listen to each of us. I will keep you and this situation in my prayers. Remember that when one door closes another door opens. ~Big Hugs sent your way.
Sadness can be so overwhelming especially when you want something to work out so badly. Your heart is in the right place and there is a reason why all things happen. Know you are a special and good hearted individual and that never goes unnoticed. It will get better.
“Amen” to all that has already been said by the others this morning. I hope that you are feeling refreshed this morning! Sending all my thoughts, prayers, and hugs to you.
You are a strong, positive person. You will find the right answer for this situation. Often time and reflection help. You will see a solution that is comfortable for everyone. Best wishes sweet friend.
Oh Susan ….I know this is so distressing for you . To be honest I thought about Earline`s age …the walker …and a small pet . Michelle is right about elderly folks being extremely cautious about falling . As you said it is time for plan “B”. This will work out some way . Your heart was in the right place and I always say things happen for reasons …it is figuring it out that is the hard part . Now Milo was not with Earline so long that he is attached . I just wonder if you can take in another fur baby ???
Prayers for you and Milo !
BLOG HUGS !
Breathe and try not to be too stressed….everything will turn out for the best. You re a goodhearted person with the right intentions and a solution will come. Hugs my friend.
It is Erlene’s decision. Keep us posted. What you did, whether it works out or not, was a great act of love.
It will become clear and things will sort themselves out. Sometimes decisions are difficult and time consuming but we need to know that things are complicated and a clear solution is not available. You are trying to do a good thing but sometimes it doesn’t work that way and we have to regroup and step back. Take heart and know that others have been there also and it will get better. Feel the love and support of your friends and family.
You are doing the right thing. Blog projects can wait. You are praying for guidance and focusing on one who needs help. There’s nothing better than that.
If it does not work out with Erlene, I see a new dog in your future. And maybe that was meant to be. Trust in the Lord and things will work out. Love to you.
As you tell me, things will work out somehow sometime. We are all behind you with prayers, thoughts and well wishes on Plan A, B, to Z!
Susan
I agree with so many who have said older people are so afraid of falling. I have experienced this with family members. I gave also experienced wanting so much to do a good thing and it not being accepted/wanted by them. So hard. And now a little puppy is here which would tear at my heart completely. But the answer will come and it will work out as it is supposed to. God is good. Try not to be too stressed and just give Milo some love while a decision is being made. You are a loving and caring person and I know you are stressing. Relax and breathe and trust.
That is a hard choice to make! Praying for you and Erlene and for Milo! I understand the fear of falling. And having a little something near your feet can make it scarier! I understand feeling sad about not keeping Milo, too, though.
Cyberhugs!
Sending you hugs and prayers, Susan!
Susan you are trying your best for all those concerned, and that is all you can do. In the end it is Erlene’s decision. What is the chance that Milo could become a service animal, trained to help Erlene if she did fall, to get help? It’s my understanding that we have a shortage of service animals. Try not to stress yourself out. Thoughts and prayers for you, Erlene, and Milo.
Dear Susan,
Your heart is right as you try to help so many people. one thing that helps me is to remember there are “good things” then there are God things…because of your kind and generous heart you may easily become involved in a good thing but not necessarily God’s thing for you. I have learned to take it in prayer and wait and also talk about things with my husband who knows how much I want to help others but also helps me realize that not everyone or every project is set aside as my assignment. Sometimes I remember before I take it on and others after I have jumped in and have become overwhelmed. Its Ok to let something go and its OK not to feel guilty. Praying for discernment and peace
blessisngs
patti
Things will work out as God has planned them. Praying for you.
Susan,
Little Milo is adorable. I’m sure things will work out for Earlene. She will have to be a little more cautious being around him for a while. I sure he will make a great companion for her.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart! Let go and Let the Lord handle it. Praying for you.